Sunday, October 28, 2007





Dear All,

Kindly be prepared for the longest entry eversince I started my blog @ January 2oo7..

13.10.2007 saturday..

everything ended @ almost 11pm +.. She was the last of all who left.. Hugged me & say something which now I think back sent a shiver down my spine... " Darling, I'll be dropping by often.. =D " I thought nothing much of it back den.. Now recall, Don't you all felt weird too? We knew each other for only abt half year plus, this's the 2nd time we met & the most is we always chatted on MSN only..

When clearing up the house with Hubby & Maids.. She called me..

She : "Darling, I think I have dropped my wallet at your place!!"

Me : "Huh?! How come.. Where did you put?"

She : "I think must be in your sis's room. Mine is a pink long wallet."

* Me walked over to sis's room & combed everywhere. *

Me : "Nothing leh.."

She : "Haiz.. I'm in cab now, den I wanna see how much $ in my wallet den open my bag check not inside liao leh.. I got money eslewhere in my bag.. It okie.. Haiz.. Money doesn't matter you know.. But is my NRIC.."

Me : "Aiyoz.. I try to find again okie.. NRIC very important de.. I will call you back shortly ok.. Dun sadz...."

Sent mass thank you smses to all who attended..

SMS reply came... 1 is from her..

* Please note I nv amend a single word from the sms she sent to me. *

She : "Dun say tat u r reali a veri good host n i reali enjoy my stay there anyway i just found my wallet in my baby's diaper -.-" stupid me sorry"

Me : "Okie, glad that u've found it back.. thanks for coming.."

She : "Thanks alot hope u feel happy too anyway just to say sorry nv help out to clean ur hse reali sorry"

Me : "U're guest leh, no need to say sorry.. we gonna clean up finished liaox.."

She : "U faster go zzz la i see u alr veri tired le anyway love n miss u"

And at this point of time, I was sitting on my bed.. Hubby passed some $ to me, I turned & wanna put the money in my wallet.. It's not there @ the usual spot anymore.. Searched everywhere.. DUN HAVE! =(

I smsed everyone of them to say that my wallet is missing.. I nv suspect anyone, just wanna share how I'm feeling at that moment...

Me: " Dear all, My wallet is missing... =( "

Everyone reply with just like normal.. " OMG.. HUH.. U serious? how come.. have u searched everywhere? Hope u find it back.. nxt time muz keep properly.. & etc.." Only her.....

She : "Dear if u suspectin anyone pls also suspect me cos i also in e room i'm sorry tat i cant even protect ur stuff really sorry"

Me : "I nv suspect anyone.. just felt sadz why is this happening.. I trusted everyone.."

She : "Ya la but i reali feel so sad cos i nv nv expected a happy day become like tat mayb If i nv go in change diaper n i also take a look carefully then nothin happen le"

She : "I'm sorry to hear that what has happen today take it as a lesson learn it and only trust no one unless is your family i'm **** (censor) husband i know it hard to accept that someone u trust have steal your thing my advise is forget the unhappy thing Don't forget that today is your precious son birthday and allow me to find 1day to treat your to go eat in appreciate u intro my son the job take care"

Me : "I've made a police report le.. nuttin much I can do now.. gonna slp soon le.. I'll be alright.."

She : "Good to hear that anyway when u and your family free? My dh want bring u all go eat btw i will also write at my blog u think is ok?"

Me : "Okie.. I'll update tomorrow too.. Night...."

She : "I later will go update my blog hope u can get back ur wallet then i seriously feel tat could it be not stolen by e mummies cos i dun feel our frz will do tis"

Me : "But fact remained that no one esle has enter the room except some of the mummies.. my relatives is at the balcony area, they nv enter my room.. my hubby's frds all at the staircase nv stepped into the house at all.. U see?"

Her hubby called....

He : " HAHAHA! U must be wondering who I am.. YES I'm ****'s husband.. (pls.. I got eyes to see the no. calling is who loh.. it already 2am.. I super tired le loh) Just wanna tell u dun be so naive if someone wanna stolen yr wallet purposely no one will return it to u.. Dun forget.. Today is your son's birthday leh..

Me : " I want to slp.. Tomorrow I'm working.. Bye. "

After I ended the call.. Hubby told me something..

Hubby : Dear.. I wanna tell u something.. I've suspected someone.. She keep on staying in our room and when u went downstair with Jeelin, all of the mummies went out of the home to the lift landing cos it's very warm in the house.. Only left her.. and I noticed that she comb around every corner of our home.. included the 3 rooms... =X

* Indeed when I returned from downstair.. All of them is at the lift landing except her.. We went back to the home to cut cake.. I went into my room.. Telling her we gonna cut cake soon, she told me to wait.. I think nuttin much then.. So I went out... *

I sent a sms to her.. " After I blog tomorrow morning, It gonna be my last entry, I'll stay away from the forums, change my hp no. "

Next morning.. 14.10.2007 Sunday - 7.51am

She : "Xiao xue i seriously say i dun wan2 lose a veri great frz like u can u dun do all tat?it reali breaks my heart i reali reali treasure our friendship cant bear to lose u if u angry wan2 vent anger can vent on me but pls dun say u wan2 stop contact me"

8.08am

She : "R u there?just wat can i do to make u dun leave us?i reali reali wan2 knw wat u thinkin can u just tell me?i reali cannot tahan tis shock"

Please.. last night called me @ almost 2am plus & expect I wake up so early? I start working @ 9am loh and my office is less than 10mins away only.. and upon waking up saw 2 long smses... =X

Me : "I got 1 card in my wallet can trace location.. I really dun wanna do that.. I just hope that someone will return me all of my cards.."

1 hr 20mins later..

She : "Sorry late reply cos feedin ******* anyway tat cool wat card was tat i also wan2 apply one"

She : "Hmmm i believe u will get back cos they got no use on those card dun worry but wat r e tings inside ur wallet?"

Me : "Hopefully bah.. I dunno what I did to deserve this from tat someone.."

She : "Omg just dunno wat to say"

Me : "Perhaps I'm just a unlucky person.."

She : "Dun say tis i nv tink is like tat"

4 days later - 18.10.2007

For those of u who saw this should knew.. She tagged on my blog.. "sry i nv realised all yr cards is so important to u" (I mean who will tag this right? It's very very weird!)

3 days later - 21.10.2007

5 mins after i finished updated my blog entry.. she smsed me.. (Is like what I expected, this person keep checking my update everyday.. It confirmed my doubt when I just updated, her sms came.)

She : " Is e ppl u sayin meanin me?"

Me : "I say wat at where? Why so sensitive?"

She : "Cos tat day u tag me say kinda tell me tat i steal ur wallet"

Me : "I nv. Why so senstive. I'm just telling u how i felt. Can't i even share how i felt with my friend? Why went offline. I just about to msn u"

MSN mode

Out of sudden.. 15min after our normal msn conversation. She told me something like.. "Darling, i got something to tell u.. I bought a ez link card tat day.. The no. I see like it yours.. But the last 3 no. has been scratched off.. The infront no. exactly same as your no. "

How would u felt if you are me? Singapore is not tat small after all won't it be too coincident?

Me : " Who did you buy it from?! "

She : " A lady. "

Me : " Give me your address now. "

She : " Y?! "

Me : " I just want to get the ez link card back & see mah. Why? "

She called me but I nv pick it up..

Jacq & Stephy called me.. They was on the line when she called the 2nd time.. Yes conference..

She : "Darling, U really got to help me! I think I really have got your ez link card!!"

Me : "When did you buy it?"

She : "If I nv remember wrongly it's the 16th or 17th October, did you went P.S? I buy it @ P.S"

Me : "I nv went to town @ all and I lost my wallet @ home not P.S"

I can't really recall the rest she say.. She was quite gancheong & panic.

This part I nv record but I've got Jacq & Stephy as my witness cos both of them heard everything.

When she hanged up, She msn me saying her Hubby wanna call me.. Ok i told her..

Btw, he sent me a PM on 20.10.2007. Again, I nv amend a single words but just censor away the name & the forum name.. =)

hi is me **** DH i heard from **** that u know who still your wallet is it? anyway if u know le just take note of him or her and becareful next time what happen has happen no use bother by it.btw if u know the person that steal your stuff mind let me know as well? need to take note also but if u don't want to say then nvm i want u to know that your incident has affect on **** quite a lot as she never think that the so call FRIEND in *** or *******.com will steal someone stuff...my advice is please don't trust ppl too much just believe on your family will do le...cause u never know how much ppl will change for the sake of $$ sorry i think i may kp too much hope u don't mind anyway remember to ask your DH and DS to come out 1 day as wanted to treat u guys go eat as a repay u for taking care of my DW and intro her the shooting job really apperciate it don't let me WAIT TOO LONG hor call **** and let her know when u can come out for lunch or dinner ok?

Phone call ( I had a hard time to type everything here.... *sweats)

He : Hmm.. Nuttin.. Ok.. Er.. Just a bit confuse anyway have u received my PM?

Me : Huh? Never. I nv saw it.

He : The one @ ***.

Me : Never. I nv log in *** for a long time, u nv see my last log in date?

He : Seriously I dunno how to see.

Me : Den none of the mummies is from ******* forum ok.

He : huh?

Me : NONE OF THE MUMMIES IS FROM ******* OK! When did I ever say that any of the mummies is from *******? Who told u this? Nobody loh. The mummies who attended that day, none of them is from *******.

He : Hmm.. R u trying to tell me something?

Me : No. What r u trying to tell me? Why do u wan to call me? U say lah! I listen can liaox.

He : Ok. So. Ok. Nuttin. Ok. We. Hmm. No u.. U calm down 1st..

Me : I'm very calm liao loh~ U dunno what exactly happening den why do u bother to call me? Den u called me, u should have thing to tell me mah. Not keep asking me mah. I'm not a prisoner leh. I'm not a criminal u know.

He : I know..

Me : Yah den u call me, u should have things to tell me mah not like keep on asking me, forcing me to tell u who is the person. It my life. Why should I tell u, u r not my who right. Aiyah, dun say so much liao lah. There's nothing much to say loh. It has been 8 days liao. I will give tat person 1 more week. Just like tat loh. I nv say it who, u all just dun be so sensitive lah ok. Nothing much to say.

He : No. U listen to me 1st ok. 1stly, I really dunno what has happened. I only knew u lost yr wallet. Just tat simple.

Me : U know tat good. Den say so much for wat now.

He : Ok. 2ndly, I just wan u to know ok. I dunno y u so pissed off with this kind of things ok. I know u lost yr wallet ok i know u r not in a good mood ok and i'm not coming *pause calling u to u know to ask for a quarrel or anything ok. What i wan u to know is ok. I'm calling u is bcos **** is my wife ok. I'm worried abt her ok. She keep blaming herself that u know if she nv go to yr side den u know u know she keep on u know think tat u know she may accidently took yr wallet u know or something like tat. It like.. 讲句难听一点的ok.. I suspected she has split personality.. She's like keep on imaging things ok. Suddenly @ one moment say everything is fine, hope xiaoxue can get back her wallet. Den suddenly she say oh er.. is xiaoxue hinting me what or something? Is like I'm totally confused loh.. ok.. I'm.. Frankly speaking I'm working right now loh ok.. and I dun even know what happened loh. It like she suddenly call me loh.. ok.. I'm just being concerns abt my wife loh.. I'm not trying to pick up a quarrel or fight with u loh ok.. For the loss of your wallet ok.. Whether is who steal is ok.. If u dun wan to say it fine ok.. bcos I won't force u to say it. U have yr right.. U have yr own u know own way of doing things ok. If u wan to catch the person just fine, go catch it ok. I'm not trying to hint u anything ok. I'm just curious what's actually happening. bcos your things is driving my wife crazy i can tell u this loh.. It like.. Once she reached home, she keep blaming herself, why must she go your place, If she nv go, will this not happen.

Me : Maybe.

He : ok...

Me : Anything more to say? Enough already. It late. I gonna slp. Tomorrow still gonna work. ok?

He : okok.. Goodnight.

Me : Bye

After this, She called to tell me the full details on the ez link card story. It a 5 min conversation. She talk more calm now. I will have a hard time typing everything here.. Will try to type tomorrow if possible..

Summary : -
She bought this from a lady @ P.S for $10+, the lady show her the balance is about $10.. (It exactly the amount in my ez link card.. I dun top up alot cos from my home -office - home is only $1.30 per day.. I nv even tell anyone how much is it inside except the police officer.) I asked her so she think the card is mine? She say the card no. is exactly like mine 一模一样！I continue to ask her is the card top bended and the card is peel open? yes yes yes.. hmm.. in fact 4 corner all like peel open liaox -.-"

Tat day, Skye told me He saw someone took my wallet. He describe the outlook of tat person.. Den I bring him to my PC, opened up the group pic without 2nd thought.. He pointed @ HER! My heart dropped.. Very disappointed..

I can send this call record clip to frz who really care.. U pple shall judge..

After Hubby reached home.. He bring me out for a walk after so much crap.. We went to the 7-11 and I play the clip for Hubby to listen.. He walked me to the police station..

I smsed her too..

Me : " Can u sms me the time u at ps station. I called sbs, they ask me go down to see the cctv records. Cos the station covered with cctv :) "

She : "Ok if i not wrong is at 2 plus 3 i was using a card using money one"

Me : " Can u go with me to the police station to do a sketch of tat woman. U can help me right. "

She : "No problem i nvm one or u wan me go my hse nearby one to tell e police then i send u e report"

Me : " No need we go together lo. Cos u the only one tat saw tat woman. I need to update record cos i report there tat day. "

She : "Ok i onli remember some part of her onli"

Me : " Ok. I will contact u. Keep the card. Thanks.

The policeman asked me if I wan to do a arrest now to her place.. I reconsider & think I should give her another week time.. So we left home..

25.10.2007 Thursday

I reached home late @ almost 12midnight after attending Dearie Jacq Birthday celebration, Hubby was looking my blog.. He saw a tag previously asking me not to expose tat person, He find it weird.. ( In the end, I heard from couple of frds.. They're buddy buddy.. " The one who tagged & the one I've suspected.. " ) He comment that He doubt I would get my wallet back.. So we decided to confront her right away..

26.10.2007 - 12:42am
Me : Come on la. stop acting innocent. Just return me my wallet if not i will make this issue real big. I have lot of time to deal with u. The conversation tat day with yr hubby & u is fully recorded. If u wanna play i can. I'll post up everything and let the rest judge, Wat a joke. I've given u alot of time to realise yr mistakes but seem like u dun appreciate eh.. If u returned everything I'll let the matter rest. Stop acting lo. U're getting on my nerve!

26.10.2007 - 12:56am
Me : Dun dare to reply?! I know u dun slp early one lo. Thinking of lame story again? I'm not a 3yrs old kid ok! U vetter wake up yr idea. Stop pushing yr luck will u! Return me everythings and rest assure I'll let the matter rest if not i'll blow the matter big. TRY ME!

26.10.2007 - 12:56am
She : Fine just post watever u wan cos i nv do it if u wan2 fight in court i will do it wif u pls go and think carefully what for i wanted to steal your thing? After u have intro me a job? Do i look like such ungrateful person

26.10.2007 - 1:01 am
Hubby to her on my behalf : Yes. okay. seem like u are more smart and determined now.why wan to expose yourself like the ez link card incident? your hubby still can tell me wat if u accidentally took my wallet. i won't fighting with u to the court for goodness sake. u don even worth more than my wallet..well..since u have my ez link now please go make police report tat someone sold to u your friend ez link card..

26.10.2007 - 1:02 am
Hubby to her on my behalf : Anyway Don make it sounds like i wan to make myself your benefactor..i'm not.wat i wan now is my wallet back.

26.10.2007 - 1:06 am
Hubby to her on my behalf : Even if i don get my wallet back from u.i must make sure tat the rest of the mummies is aware of ppl like u.stealin friends things.shame on u.wat goes around comes around.u will have your karma.i'm her hubby here replyin tis smses.

26.10.2007 - 1:06am
She : The ez link card is i buy one that's all i say believe anot up to u tmr i will go to police there to report the ez link card thing no need u to blow up the ting i will make it to cantoment.

26.10.2007 - 1:09 am
Hubby to her on my behalf : Okay make sure u go down.anyway we went to update the police about our case.make sure u can do sketch of the person who sold u the card. if not u're the most suspicious suspect.

26.10.2007 - 1:09am
She : Pls for goodness sake if i reali steal wil i be so dumb to stay til last ppl i dun scare u see my bag meh nvm la i now tell u directly i nv somemore if got karma i alr dead by now (In the phone record clip, she told me she still see my wallet @ 10pm+ and the person must be someone who left not so early.. All of the mummies left @ 9pm+ after cake cutting.)

26.10.2007 - 1:13 am
Hubby to her on my behalf : Karma don happen so fast.it's only a matter of time.your stupidity is really makin a joke out of u. i don really mind if i can't get my wallet back anymore.but i will let those mummies judge..i just wan them to be careful of someone who can steal their friends things and make a fool of herself.

26.10.2007 - 1:12am
She : I dun mind be e suspect n i also wont mind if police wan2 come my hse to check or even anywhere or take out e tape or wat cos i nv done it

26.10.2007 - 1:18 am
Hubby to her on my behalf : By now u should have clear those things liao ba.Nvm tomorrow go do your police report k. *Me continue as I wanna end it 1 & for all.. : I'll made u feel guilty for yr life. U dun even worth me spending 1 second on u. THIEF! Wake up yr idea! No need say so much anymore! U've hit my limit! Wait and see!

26.10.2007 - 1:19am
She : If u insist i steal ok i will go up to forum n tell them i steal n forever n ever i wont step into e forum n remember tis if u r accused me karma will same go to u thanks for *******'s ting n let e mummy hate me cos i steal wat..i now will do wat u wana me to do (My hubby to her : if 1st u insist not u who done it why in the end wanna admit? and is u yrself who say wanna post @ forum not XX who wan to post in forum, pls see yr blog entry)

26.10.2007 - 1:21 am
Me : Okay please do it then. I'm not afraid of karma, retribution watever. I nv did anything against my heart. I'm not so cold blooded like someone. End.

Now, I dun wanna point finger.. But after everything, how do u all felt? I knew I can't get my wallet & stuffs back anymore.. In her blog, she mentioned that she did steal when young?! -.-" Will a leopard really change it spots? *shrugs* I don't see why the loss of my wallet doesn't affect the rest of the mummies so badly than her.. They will sometime sms me & ask me if I found my wallet back but not like how it has affected her.. Everything is just so weird.. I just wanna end this miserable period which has been haunting me for the past 2 weeks.. Someone I called friend eventually did this to me.. I'm walking out of this darkness now.. Hopefully.. She won't do this to other again.. Someone told me tat she's having post natal depression and is getting from bad to worse but depression doesn't give one excuse to steal just for the kick of stealing yah.. =(



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Sunday, October 28, 2007